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Live Longer — Write Now! How Creative Writing Can Help Seniors Stay Healthy

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There’s a long tradition of writers gathering to swap stories and feed on each other’s creative energy. At Lutheran Hillside Village, a senior living community in Peoria, Illinois, that tradition has taken the form of the Pen Souls.

The members write in a wide range of styles on a wide range of topics. As a creative exercise, stories started by one member can be passed around and finished by another. These games help keep the creative “pumps primed”, which makes tackling larger, more personal projects easier.

“It’s good for mental dexterity — not to mention manual dexterity,” says Ken Jones, one of the founders of the group. “Just the act of writing keeps the joints strong.” And Ken knows his stuff — writing offers a wide range of benefits for older adults, from the intellectual to the physical to the spiritual.

For example, one psychologist at the University of Texas at Austin reports findings that indicate the act of journaling strengthens our immune system. Other researchers tell us that writing takes the edge off asthma and rheumatoid arthritis.

It all comes down to stress. Writing down thoughts about stressful or unpleasant events can help the writer sort through his or her feelings about those events, which lowers stress levels. People utilize the logically-oriented language centers of the left brain when they write. In writing about bad times, we rationally “unpack” our emotions.

This works on a daily basis for journal-writers, but it can also work on a larger scale. Combat veterans are encouraged to keep a journal to help “unpack” traumatic events they experienced on active duty. That’s one reason that many groups have started interviewing World War II vets.

But another reason for this initiative is one that resonates with millions of seniors — the desire to preserve a piece of living history. “I wanted my children and grandchildren to have a better feeling for who I am,” says Jerry Carlson, a resident at Concordia Village in Springfield, Illinois. In his 70s, Jerry has spent months writing his life story for the benefit of his family. “I didn’t know much about my grandparents. I wish I’d asked more questions. I didn’t want my grandkids to say, ‘I wonder what he was like.’”

The Pen Souls’ work is collected in a series of large binders, which are available in the Village library. But over and above the creation of a sizeable body of resident-produced work, and the health benefits for everyone involved, perhaps the greatest result of the group’s formation has been the friendships formed. After all, writing can be a terrific social activity as well.

As longtime member Diana Carlson puts it, “It’s a wonderful way to get to know people in a different way. In fact, it’s the place where I get to know people the best.”

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If you’re thinking about your future plans, Lutheran Senior Services communities are great places to start. Offering independent living apartments and patio homes, our warm, welcoming campuses offer easy access to assisted living, memory care, and skilled nursing should your needs change. For more information or to arrange a visit, click here.

Gifts and Responsibilities: What Being St. Louis’ Largest Nonprofit Organization Means to LSS

An interpretation of Luke 12:48 from Eugene Peterson’s “The Message: The Bible in Contemporary Language” reads, “Great gifts mean great responsibilities; greater gifts, greater responsibilities.”

It’s in that spirit that Lutheran Senior Services commemorates our fifth year as the largest not-for-profit in the St. Louis area, as recognized by the St. Louis Business Journal.

“At LSS, the gifts we have been blessed with are many,” says LSS President John Kotovsky. “Those gifts give us the opportunity to serve others, and as our blessings multiply, so too do our occasions for becoming a blessing to others.”

In some cases, that “multiplication” effect has led to LSS updating and upgrading our buildings and amenities. In other cases, it has meant adding programs, such as in-home technologies and hospice care. And in still others, it has led to LSS offering new mixes of living options for those with fewer resources. Through our communities, programs, volunteerism, and benevolent care, we expand in order to reach out further into the community at large.

“That’s the responsibility that comes with being so blessed,” Kotovsky says, “and it’s a responsibility we gladly take on as part of our Christian mission to help older adults live life to the fullest.”

This Month in American History: Babe Ruth Is Born!

How many nicknames do YOU know for the Sultan of Swat, the King of Crash, the Colossus of Clout? George Herman “Babe” Ruth collected noms de batte like the millions of kids who idolized him collected baseball cards. And with good cause — more than 80 years after he hit a record-breaking 60 home runs in a single season, The Babe is still considered by most sports historians as the greatest player the sport of baseball has ever seen. This month, we celebrate the birthday of Babe Ruth (Feb. 6, 1895) with some little known facts about the Rajah of Rap, the Wazir of Wham, the…well, you get the idea.

Did you know…

  • Unable to care for young Babe, his parents remanded him to the custody of St. Mary’s Industrial School for Boys, where he learned  the game of baseball from one of the Catholic missionaries there.
  • He got the name “Babe” as a result of the unusual circumstances of his first baseball contract.  Technically an orphan and too young to sign with the Baltimore Orioles, Ruth allowed the team’s manager Jack Dunn to become his legal guardian. His new teammates gave Ruth his first nickname — “Jack Dunn’s baby” — which gradually morphed into “Babe”.
  • Think the Baby Ruth candy bar was named for the ballplayer of the (nearly) same name? Not according to the Curtiss Candy Company, who, despite the fact that the confection hit store shelves at the height of The Babe’s popularity, claimed that their product was named for President Cleveland’s daughter Ruth. Decades of enmity between the Ruth family and the candymakers finally ended in 1995 when the company licensed the Bambino’s likeness for a marketing campaign.

Nancy Lysen Kirtley: A Servant’s Heart and a Painter’s Eye

If there’s a common thread in Nancy Lysen Kirtley’s life experiences, it’s making the world a finer place. Professionally, Nancy has devoted most of her life to improving people’s lives through medical social work, but since retiring, she works to bring beauty to her surroundings through her painting.

“I worked with stroke victims, amputees, people suffering from chronic pain, and children with special needs,” Nancy says. She commuted to Washington University from Columbia every week to receive a master’s degree in social work while her loving husband Jack took care of the house. “He was an engineer,” she says. “so while I was in school, he cooked and ate the same food everyday.” She smiles. “I don’t know if you know any engineers, but if you do, you know what I’m talking about.”

Eventually all the travel and hard work (and repetitive meals) paid off. Nancy became a medical social worker for University of Missouri Hospital and their clinics. She specialized in pediatric oncology and devoted her time to serving others. Social work was her life. “I liked working with families and children, and I tailored my expertise to them,” says Nancy. “It’s what I liked to do.”

After she retired, Nancy pursued her painting with equal fervor. “A friend from a yoga class said that I would like her art class, so I tried it and it was very enjoyable,” she says. “I mostly do water colors; they are portable and don’t smell. I love painting the sea. The sea and landscapes,” she says.

Mostly, she paints for her own enjoyment. “I had a show a few years ago and a German couple bought a piece of art that I created. It was a little like selling your kids, so I mostly paint for my own entertainment and for family.”

Sadly, Jack developed leukemia and in time, his doctors indicated it was time for him to enter hospice care. “Our house was not set up for that, so it was time to move,” she says. “My sister lived at Lenoir Woods and I knew someday we wanted to come. I knew that it was a safe place for seniors, with lots of activities and programs.”

When Jack passed away, Nancy was met by an outpouring of support from her new neighbors. “I was glad to be here because you have a ready-made community,” she says. “I didn’t have to eat alone. I was heartwarmed.”

Today, Nancy is co-chair of the Lenoir Woods Art Club, a group that revels in oils, acrylics, and watercolors. “We meet twice a month. We have a new art and crafts room. It’s a good space with room to work, and great people to work with.”

“It’s a great way to live,” she says.

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We’d love to hear from you! Located in Columbia, MO 65201, Lenoir Woods senior living offers independent living, REACH Short Stay Rehabilitation, assisted living, and skilled nursing. For more information or to arrange a visit, click here.

LSS Construction Update 2013: Looking Forward to A Big Year Ahead!

Lutheran Senior Services’ commitment to building quality environments where older adults can thrive continues in 2013. We have a whole host of improvements and expansions currently underway across our service area. Check the slideshow below to see what’s coming up in the new year!

 

Laclede Groves: Expanding on Tradition

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Parts of Laclede Groves' $50 million expansion project are already open, with some new Town Center amenities already up and running. The new 80-apartment independent living building opens its doors this spring, with the rest of the project reaching completion in the fall.

 

 

Mary Sindahl: From High Fashion to a Hard Hat and Jumpsuit

Grace, style, and fashion are three characteristics that Mary Sindahl has mastered. Designing clothes for her friends and neighbors led her and her daughter to open a stylish clothing boutique with her daughter. “Everyone wanted something that no one else had, and we made those designs for them,” says Mary.

Shoppers intrigued by the latest French vogue designs in the little shop window ordered the new styles custom-made for themselves. “There were so many orders, it was difficult to handle them all,” she says. But after her daughter married, it became impossible for Mary to manage the boutique by herself. So, she made a big career switch. “I was ready for a change, so I went from high heels and fashion to a jumpsuit, a hard hat, and steel-toed shoes.”

Hoping for a new challenge, Mary took on a very different kind of job — she joined a firm in Chicago to design insulated enclosures for instruments used in the petrochemical industry, including pumps, valves, heat exchanges, and piping  for major refineries. Later, she went on to join Obrien, an engineering firm in St. Louis.

Mary lived in a large brick home, and after retirement, she began to feel just how big it was. “I had seminary students renting rooms upstairs, but otherwise I lived alone,” she recalls. “My children wanted me to make a change and consider a different kind of residence somewhere. I visited a number of different potential living places, but none seemed suitable until I visited Laclede Groves.”

“My spiritual life is very important to me,” Mary says. “The indescribable beauty and serenity of Laclede Groves’ magnificent chapel is a special blessing. Laclede Groves impressed me as having a caring outreach like no other community, and the chapel is an outward sign of that. ”

Mary is now a resident at Laclede Groves. Her style resonates in the décor she arranged in her new apartment. Her light-colored furniture and large white-framed mirror make her apartment a delightful place to be.

“I love my apartment and the beautiful view I have here. The staff is kind and caring, and the community as a whole is outstanding,” she says. “I just feel at home.”

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We’d love to hear from you! Located in Webster Groves, MO 63119, Laclede Groves senior living offers independent living, REACH Short Stay Rehabilitation, residential care, memory care assisted living, and skilled nursing. For more information or to arrange a visit, click here.

Fighting the Winter “Dark Ages” with Science and a Smile

Skeleton-finger trees. Gray, colorless landscapes. Nothing to do but watch television, even THAT’s been pretty terrible this year. Wintertime stinks unless you’re curled up with a good book and a roaring fire, but even that gets old after a while.

The “Dark Ages” between Christmas and Spring certainly doesn’t do older adults any favors. Some five million Americans 65 or better suffer from various forms of depression, and between the post-holiday blues, seasonal affective disorder, and cabin fever, there’s no shortage of reasons to get bummed out this time of year.

The good news is that, while we wait out the Dark Age, there are any number of proactive, scientifically sound steps you and your aging loved ones can take to get your groove back.

Stay Away from the Hootch.
Too many people pass the winter months with a nip from the bottle in their coffee, if not a glass of scotch in their hand. Alcohol abuse is all-too prevalent among seniors, and the occasional cocktail can become a pattern of behavior, and that pattern can become a problem if left unchecked. What’s worse is that alcohol is a depressant — once the buzz wears off, you can end up feeling worse than you started. Best to keep the liquor cabinet locked unless company’s over.

Dirt Therapy.
Love gardening? There’s no reason to give it up during the winter when so many greenhouses offer affordable indoor flowerboxes. In addition to the natural glow you get from doing something you love, scientists tell us there’s a “friendly” strain of bacteria found in topsoil (“mycobacterium vaccae”, if you’d care to Google it) that ups our levels of serotonin — the brain’s natural good-times chemical.

Hack Your Brain with a Camera Phone.
Here’s some more science for you. Do you have a cell phone with a camera on it? Snap some pictures of your friends and family. Researchers at UCLA tell us that the simple act of looking at pictures of loved ones can serve as a low-level painkiller and improve your mood at the same time. Of course, UCLA could’ve just asked any grandmother — they already know that looking at pictures of their grandkids is a quick way to brighten any day.

Get Off the Insomnia – Caffeine – Depression Hamster Wheel.
Depression and exhaustion go hand in hand. And the older we get, the worse we sleep. As we age, we spend less time each night in the deeper parts of our sleep cycle and more in the lighter phases. That makes it easier to be roused from our midwinter slumber. So what do we turn to to stay alert during the day? You got it — coffee. And what does the caffeine in coffee do but disrupt our body’s sleep patterns even further, leading, finally, to depression. Rather than going around and around that vicious circle, try cutting out the coffee after noon and regulating your sleep cycle — set a bedtime and a getting-up time for yourself and stick to them.

Facebook is Good, But Face Time is Better
The media loves to talk about social networks like Facebook and Twitter, but your original social networks — your family, your circle of friends, your church groups, and so on — can be some of your best bets when it comes to battling the blues. There have been no end of studies that point to strong social ties as having positive effects on anxiety and depression, especially for people 65 and better. Facebook and Twitter are great tools to keep in touch regularly with your nearest and dearest, but remember — there’s no substitute for some good old fashioned face-to-face interaction.

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And if you’re looking to expand your social networks after retirement, there’s no better place to do that than at a Lutheran Senior Services community. There’s a reason why so many older adults tell us that our senior living communities feel like home — it’s because it’s so easy to meet people here. Within days of arrival, new residents almost always report finding people with common interests, old friends from work or school, and sometimes even a new romance!

To learn more about our senior living communities, visit LSSLiving.org/Communities today!

This Month in American History: Ellis Island Opens Its Doors

Between 1892 and 1954, millions of immigrants took their first steps on American soil on Ellis Island, the country’s busiest portal for new citizens arriving from Europe and all points east. One hundred and twenty one years ago this month, the original immigrant inspection facility built in the shadow of the State of Liberty opened its doors to the tempest-tossed and the huddled masses yearning to breathe free.

Did you know…

  • Built entirely of wood, the original Ellis Island immigrant station was destroyed by fire just five and a half years after it was opened. The building that currently occupies Ellis Island opened in December 1900, and currently serves as an immigration museum.
  • Ellis Island was given the nickname “Heartbreak Island” due to the fact that some two percent of immigrants were refused.
  • If you’ve seen The Godfather Part II, you may remember a scene when a young Don Corleone arrives at Ellis Island, only to be registered under a different surname because no one on staff could communicate with him in Italian. According to experts, the idea of facility officials renaming immigrants is a myth, albeit one that has thrived for decades.
  • How many people were processed at Ellis Island? In 1907 alone, more than 1 million people came through the facility’s gates. It’s estimated that anywhere between one-third and one-half of the current US population can claim at least one ancestor who came through Ellis Island.

Chuck and Reva Take on China: A Once-in-a-Lifetime Adventure

Just sitting around is not an option for Chuck and Reva Krell. After selling their business in Jacksonville, Illinois, and moving to Concordia Village, the couple is busier than ever.

Recently, the couple returned from a three-week trip to China. “The opportunity to go came up when we were still living in Jacksonville and we decided to take it. We flew in to Beijing, we saw the Great Wall of China and so many other great sites,” says Chuck.

The trip involved a 200-mile river cruise on the Yangtze River. “It was unlike anything we have ever seen,” Chuck says. “We saw Chinese farmers using water buffalo to plow fields, and then we flew to Shanghai which was as modern as New York City.”

During their travels, the couple quickly found that they stood out in a crowd. “With my wife being blonde and me being tall, we were kind of celebrities,” Chuck says. “We had a lot of Chinese people who wanted to get pictures taken with us.”

“And the food was wonderful,” says Reva. “I’m not a rice eater, but Chuck loves it. After every meal we had dessert, but not like you think. There were no cakes or pies — it was actually a large platter of fresh watermelon each time. Apparently they just love it over there.”

“It was just a wonderful trip,” she says. “The people were interesting with lots of smiles.”

Traveling is not the Krells’ only passion. The couple is also greatly involved in volunteering for the community. “I just completed working on a house for Habitat for Humanity here in Springfield,” Chuck says. “I also helped start a scholarship fund with our neighbors for student employees and servers here on campus. My neighbor is the chairman and I do the fundraising.”

“I never had the opportunity to do things like this before we came here,” he says. “Being at Concordia Village, it has become so much easier to get out and help people.” Because so many of the hassles of home ownership get taken care of by the staff, he says, “You don’t have to worry about your time.”

“It’s easy to travel, too,” adds Reva. “When you have your house, you spend a lot of time worrying about what can happen to it, especially when you are gone three to four weeks at a time. Here, your house is taken care of,” says Reva.

Chuck agrees. “They look after our property and I think that really enhanced our living here at Concordia Village, allowing us to do some extra things we wanted to do,” he says.

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We’d love to hear from you! Located in Springfield, IL 62711, Concordia Village senior living offers independent living, REACH Short Stay Rehabilitation, assisted living, memory care assisted living, and skilled nursing. For more information or to arrange a visit, click here.

Busting Retirement Myths, Part II: Holiday Edition!

Think you know what life is like at a senior living community? If “freedom”, “fun”, and “fulfillment” aren’t words that come immediately to mind, it may be time to check your preconceived notions at the door.

In October, we asked Phyllis Downs — a senior living counselor at a Lutheran Senior Services community — to help us dispel a handful of myths about life in a modern retirement community. As Christmas draws near, Phyllis is back to help us debunk a few more old wives tales, including…

Myth 1: “All they do there is play Bingo.”

“Bingo” isn’t quite a dirty word in today’s senior communities, but it’s getting there. And that suits Elizabeth Ann Morgan just fine.

“I’m exercising an hour a day, using weights, and walking the nature trails,” says Elizabeth, a resident at Lenoir Woods in Columbia, Missouri. “I sing in vespers choir, I get together with friends for cards…There is just an endless list of things to do here.”

Independent living has a new face, Phyllis says. “Here, we’re all about providing opportunities for our residents to grow, gain new friends, and expand their creativity. That’s why our activities staff is here — to help our residents to enjoy their old interests as well as try new ones.”

What that looks like on a monthly basis is a mix of familiar favorites as well as exciting new possibilities. That’s why today’s communities offer tai chi, trips to art gallery openings, wine and beer tastings, video games, and art classes alongside more traditional fare.

“We try to encourage our residents to stay involved and active,” Phyllis says. “After all, that’s what keep us young.”

And with Christmas on the way, LSS communities are bustling with activity – decking the halls, trimming the trees, and preparing for a full slate of activities, both sacred and secular. Resident volunteer groups are hard at work collecting canned goods and toys for a whole spectrum of local service agencies. Community choirs are practicing for upcoming concerts. And the communities’ business offices are booking private dining rooms and other common areas for private family Christmas get-togethers.

Myth 2: “I will lose my independence.”

As we age, certain things become inevitable. At some point, we all begin to need additional help. We give up driving. We stay in more. But, Phyllis says, moving to a senior community isn’t a sign that we’re giving up on living independently. “Just the opposite, in fact. It’s a way to preserve our independence for as long as possible.”

Just ask the Gougeons if they’ve given up. A couple at Meridian Village in Glen Carbon, Illinois, Nick and Charlotte Gougeon will be the first to tell you that moving out of their old house was the best move they could have made to ensure a long and healthy retirement. “We had to have our daughter come out and shovel our drive on her lunchbreak during the wintertime,” Charlotte says. “Now we don’t have to burden her with that and we’re not worried about getting stuck in bad weather.”

The Gougeons touch on two themes that Phyllis hears a lot when she works with seniors — the idea that keeping up the house can wear a person out, and the idea that most older adults don’t want to have to rely on their children to help them maintain their independence.

“Some of the words I hear most often during interviews with potential new residents are, ‘I don’t want to be a burden to my kids,’” Phyllis says. “By choosing to move into a senior living community while they’re still mobile, active, and healthy, our residents ensure that that won’t happen.”

Another great thing for the Gougeons, a pair of committed snowbirds – during the holidays, they’re freed up to travel the country to visit friends and family, content in the knowledge that their home is being looked after while they’re on the road. What more can you ask during the holidays?

Myth 3: “The apartments are too small.”

Moving from a full-sized house to an apartment can be a tricky transition for some. But, Phyllis says, it’s important to keep a few things in perspective. “Let’s say you’re living alone in a three-bedroom house,” she says. “It’s important to look at the space that you’re actually using in that house. More often than not, a single person only ends up using a very small percentage of their floorplan on a daily basis.”

And the rest of the space? It’s often given over to storing furniture and possessions that are rarely used and seldom appreciated.

“My old house was more than 100 years old and very large,” says Elizabeth, our friend at Lenoir Woods. “It had four bedrooms, it had a lot of yard, and so it was a lot of work. Most of that space I didn’t even use,” she says. “My new home at Lenoir Woods is the handiest house I’ve ever lived in. It’s just a heavenly place.”

With extra storage space, fixtures designed with seniors in mind, and floorplans laid out to provide maximum flexibility for different designing tastes, senior living apartments and patio homes are made to suit the special needs of older adults. And best of all, Phyllis says, “Our residents are free to decorate their homes using their furniture and décor. Plus, we offer assistance if they need help with their floor plans and staging their rooms.”

And, if you choose a smaller floorplan, don’t worry — senior communities have ample activity rooms to accommodate all sizes of family get-togethers. This year, Christmas at Grandma’s can be a wholly worry-free affair, as you can let the staff clean in preparation of your holiday guests.

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If you’re thinking about your future plans, Lutheran Senior Services communities are great places to start. Offering independent living apartments and patio homes, our warm, welcoming campuses offer easy access to assisted living, memory care, and skilled nursing should your needs change. For more information or to arrange a visit, click here.